we live our lives going on wishing that we could have that thing or that person...and then we say: ahhh...i don't deserve that

well, if u think u don't deserve it then you really don't! its simple, what we deserve & what we don't deserve is up to us. If we believe we deserve something then we do. Reality is what we create

sometimes we are just too lazy to chase our dreams or just in the middle of the road we change our mind, this is not the reality we are looking for. every one of us deserves to make their dream come true but life is not a fairy tale story in which everything happens like a miracle, you have to act up and be your own miracle. Make your dreams comes true. If it is buying that car or that house or being with that person, it's all there, just grab it! now its not THAT easy always but the question is: HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT? compute the opportunity cost for yourself then if you thought it was worth it then go after it untill you finally get it. Dreams don''t have to stay as DREAMS forever, they can become your reality , you just have to choose. It might be hard to reach your dream but IT IS NEVER IMPOSSIBLE

GOOD LUCK

When you finally make the decision of making a change in your life and actually re-write the role you play, Its time for asking universe for a change! ask and it will be yours , believe and you'll recieve! that easy

in order to make that change happen you must stand by the decision you have already made and let me tell you, IT IS NOT GOING TO BE EASY.but its about now or NEVER so act and make that necessary change.

remember , you life is what you create it to be. so what ever good or bad happens, it is all your fault! build the life you want NOW

I believe everyone should have a point every once in a while to close the files of their past and start new chapter. For some, its their birthday, for some (like me) its new years

Reviewing the year that past in important. Reviewing the things that happened, the decision you made, the things you’ve done, the things you learned. Doing so really helps one to understand where he/she stands and understanding that is important for carrying on in life

The whole point of doing so, is understand yourself, if you understand yourself then you’re gonna start understanding others

List the things you did in 2009 and you were about a bout them. Write the reasons for your happiness about every single thing

List the things you did in 2009 and you were not happy about it, or you regret. Write the reason for your sadness or regret about every single thing

List the Mistakes you made in 2009. Doesn’t matter WHY you made that mistake. But it matters what you LEARNED from it. So write what you learned from each mistake

List want you want to do in 2010 and write the reason you want to do it

List the decisions that you made in 2009. Write the reason you made that decision. Are you happy about those decision? Why? Why not? Write everything

Now when preparing these lists, do yourself a favor and BE HONEST with yourself. Now I know sometimes it is really hard to be honest with yourself but you won’t succeed unless you do it properly

The moment you start being honest with yourself, that is the moment the door of knowing yourself will open! When listing the mistakes you made in 2009 you’re excepting each mistake and that’s great!  When you write what you learned from each mistake, the chances that you make that mistake again will go smaller. When you write the things you did and you liked and the things you did and you didn’t like, that will help you understand what you want to do from now on and the reason you want to do it. The best part is that in between by writing the reasons , you’ll know if that particular thing is even worth doing or resisting.(hope I made it clear :p ) and finally when you list the things you want to do in 2010 and the reasons you want to do them, you’ll know if the things you want to do are for the right reason, or its even time to do it and then when you go over this list in the last week of 2010 which is next year, you’ll know how much you’ve committed to yourself and your decisions

 A positive point about preparing all these lists is that you get one step closer to yourself. You understand yourself better. It is also a very useful way of moving on

I’ll give one example for every list

List 1: the things I did in 2009 and I liked + the reason : I gave myself a chance to actually love someone. I’m happy I gave myself this chance because without learning to love and giving myself the chance to love , life is meaningless

List 2: the things I did in 2009 and I didn’t like + the reason : I started liking a guy just because others were pushing me. The reason I’m not happy about it is that I should be living my life for me and for what I think and feel , not for what others think and feel

List 3: The mistakes I made in 2009 + what I learned from it: When I found out that my bf cheated on me for the second time I still gave him another chance and that was when he cheated on me for the third time. My mistake was that  by giving him chances on and on , I let him take me for granted. What did I learn? ONCE A CHEATER , ALWAYS A CHEATER +  how I should not let anyone take me for granted

List 4: what I want to do in 2010 and the reason: I want to learn Salsa dancing! Why?!  It will give me in good shape, it will bring me happiness

Now, GOOD LUCK with your lists :D